tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post4423164259149749877..comments2023-11-03T05:35:17.675-07:00Comments on Roccie Road: Mad ravings and I am not even on LupronRocciehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16240177887229400836noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-18489305214561438092010-07-26T23:17:48.232-07:002010-07-26T23:17:48.232-07:00I know how you feel, I have regretted one or two o...I know how you feel, I have regretted one or two of my posts too. But I have to say, I think this one's a keeper.<br />Your problems are "real problems" there's no pain olympics here. I'm sorry that you have to endure it - I too know the pain of enduring a pregnancy that you just do NOT want to even acknowledge...Suzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10979257233557088253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-55984885612268490712010-07-25T17:48:42.925-07:002010-07-25T17:48:42.925-07:00Its funny that some pregnancies hurt us more than ...Its funny that some pregnancies hurt us more than others. I can't put my finger on it at all because I don't seem to have a logical system that I follow to get to the reaction that comes out of me. <br />But the truth is, this is our reality and damn it, it sucks. I hate having other peoples pregnancies danced in front of me most of the time. Its about US, not the pregnant person. We are the ones battling this and its not actaully about thier pregnancy, its just about what it signifies to us and what we're missing out on.<br />But a friend who knows your history should not be inviting you to join in baby name conversations!! NO way would you get me joining in on that topic (aside from the fact that I don't want to give away the good names that I've been saving up all these years, its just way too emotionally painful).<br />Trust yourself and your intuition. If it feels wrong then it probably is and you shouldnt feel bad for the way you feel. xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-5579440224688631282010-07-25T14:51:42.161-07:002010-07-25T14:51:42.161-07:00Hugs. It makes sense to me that this pregnancy in ...Hugs. It makes sense to me that this pregnancy in particular is hurting. It's your "ghost pregnancy" -- the pregnancy you should be having. I had a similar thing happen with one of my boys' therapists. She got pg with me at the exact same time last year. We both m/ced the same week, too. BUT, she got pg again right away. It was all I could do to not run into the other room when I'd see that big belly flaunting itself in my face.<br /><br />The sad thing was that I was happy for her. The hard part was that I was more miserable for myself.<br /><br />As for me, the thing I dread most is the unconscious belly rubbing/resting hand on bump/other people touching the belly thing. Sigh.<br /><br />Hang in there. The offer to slap her still stands. :-)Staciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01471803757485977959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-3674171254957720232010-07-25T08:20:37.788-07:002010-07-25T08:20:37.788-07:00P.S. Why can't I follow you?P.S. Why can't I follow you?Gurleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05562588754936930732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-42963302046226922742010-07-25T08:20:00.023-07:002010-07-25T08:20:00.023-07:00There have been times when I felt badly about my u...There have been times when I felt badly about my uncensored bitchiness, but that's what blogs are for, right? If someone can't deal too bad, click to another site. I have to process my ugly feelings somehow or else I would a. explode or b. turn into a childless bitch that no one wants to be around.<br /><br />I find that when I am spewing negativity I tend to get more comments, perhaps its the misery loves company thing. But whatever, it is healthy to have a forum to vent. Besides, there should be no judgement here.Gurleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05562588754936930732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-73130714397764107842010-07-25T06:37:18.791-07:002010-07-25T06:37:18.791-07:00I'm glad you put it back up and I agree with g...I'm glad you put it back up and I agree with gingerandlime: this should be a safe place for you to vent, whenever you need to. I don't think anyone would ever judge you for it (and if they did it would be throwing stones in a glass house...because we've ALL had these emotions). In terms of the bad stuff happening all around...yeah, it's true. But it doesn't change the fact that it is going to be a hard, hard chore to get through these next eight months. And I STILL contend that this woman is a huge pain in the ass because she knows what you've experienced and she should have the good sense to show a little sensitivity. Period.Adelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06955659206478903815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-48431302513096459112010-07-24T06:39:54.473-07:002010-07-24T06:39:54.473-07:00OK, so first of all if there is ONE place in the w...OK, so first of all if there is ONE place in the world you don't have to censor yourself, it's here. That's the whole point of the blog, isn't it? To say the things you can't say anywhere else? (Or maybe that's just me....)<br /><br />Anyway, I'm glad you put it back up. Your list of the things you dread is like a litany of torture. The one that always gets me for some reason is talking about whether or not she's going to use a sling (they're very popular around here). I don't know why but that of all things sends me into a downward spiral every time.<br /><br />And while I may have been full of equanimity and good feelings in my post yesterday, I should note that it has been a while since I have had to talk with an actual live-in-person pregnant woman. Seriously, Roccie, when you are dealing with that, all bets are off!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1612802090292830580.post-41440844745465427712010-07-23T19:42:10.688-07:002010-07-23T19:42:10.688-07:00Seriously Roccie.
WTF.Seriously Roccie.<br /><br />WTF.Rocciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16240177887229400836noreply@blogger.com