Tuesday, January 24, 2012

The truth about School (aka DAYCARE)

Toddlerina was in school at the tender age of 16 weeks.  I was devastated when I enrolled her.  I cried when she started in school and can you believe I cried when I pulled her out to come home with me.  I would miss it.  What.

We went back to school today to visit Toddlerina's friends.  My friends are there too.  I didn't realize just how much those teachers had become a part of my family.

Toddlerina RAN into the school director's arms, shouting her name the whole way.

Marla!

Marla!

Marla!

Of course I cried.  Then they cried, then we all looked at Jay and cried.  It was so much fun for so much crying.

I am deeply grateful to stay home with my family and I cannot imagine myself here without a nod of gratitude to our school.  It shaped Toddlerina and it shaped me for the better.

Momma.  Are you hurting as your baby gets ready for school?  I know this post doesn't diminish the pain, but consider it a flash forward into your future.  S/he will be so very happy and so very loved.

And when the kids are old enough 
We are going to teach them to fly.

(Name that tune.  Players?)

8 comments:

  1. I was going to make a joke about daycare being evil, but perhaps best not to...I'm so glad you had such a positive experience, and I think these words of encouragement are solid gold.

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  2. I was racked with guilt over "abandoning" my baby to nursery at 7 months to go back to work (out of financial necessity). Now, I'm so glad he goes there - he loves it, learns things there, adores his key workers and they really care for him - and they give me tips on feeding, sleep etc. I think he would be bored at home with me 7 days a week and I would probably have gone mad. This way, he gets 3 days a week of nursery fun, a day of just me, a day of just his dad and a weekend of both of us.

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  3. Thanks Roccie!!! I really needed to read this post. LN10 will be in daycare in a little over 3 months from now and I am beginning to stress about it!

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  4. I loved daycare as a kid. I also loved being home with mom, so your Toddlerina has had the joy of both. Gratitude and love for those who help care for those we cherish.

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  5. Loved reading this post, I've been having more difficulty this past week when dropping off and picking up little man (and I constantly remind myself, at least it's just part time, but still there are hard moments)so this brought comfort. Thank you!

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  6. Beautiful, emotional, and so very imaginable for me.

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