I feel like I have been granted license to open up again. No one asked me to censor but I did.
I remember my happy frustration when I first started looking for donor egg blogs. So many of them were "finished" - they were at home with healthy babies. Quiet blogs. Infrequent updates. So very unlike me at the time.
Well hello and welcome to my stale parenting blog.
I didn't want to become that blog. The one talking about babies and naps and poops.
I was frustrated by the lack of LIVE ACTION donor egg blogs, but it gave me great comfort. All these women were getting pregnant! And taking babies home!
But I still have some shit to sort out. Anyone who has the heart and time to help me attend to my issues is welcome here. If you are quietly reading along to form your own plans, you are welcome here.
I am beyond the live action (...for now?). I have tried to make navigation easier for the new donor egg recipient by listing my milestones. I am on the other side and now need to dig into some ideas that could hurt to read depending where your heart is day to day.
I don't know if we will transfer another embryo.
I don't know what agency to use to facilitate the embryo adoption process once our family is complete.
If you are in a place you can read parenting issues that sound down right ungrateful, please stay. I could use your advice and you can call bullshit when you see it. If it sucks to read someone with such a divine problem as mine, I understand.
I left a lot of blogs that got pregnant when I wasn't. I get it. I sure as hell wouldn't want to read about someone counting her embryos over and over. I promise I won't be weighing the benefits of a Gemini over a Libra, but my issues will sound pretty trivial.
All my best every single day,