Saturday, February 22, 2014

IVF, Donor egg and Freak of Nature Babies

My friends all call this pregnancy a "normal" one.  I usually correct them with a honest laugh, tell them that we Infertiles prefer the term "Unassisted".  I guess "Spontaneous" works, but sounds too clinical and I don't think this stuff happens without science or God.

Uncomfortable with that last sentence but I'll leave it for now.

Everything is going well.  Lots of movement.  Can't think of a girl name.  Boys name is set.  Need to get Jay out of the crib.  Not worried anymore.  I have not graduated to some higher plane of faith, I just don't have the time to worry like I used to.

Shame really.  I am an exceptional worrier.

I fired my OB office for not offering the Harmony, Maternit21 or other type test.  Fuckers. I had to find it online myself.

You're fired.  CVS/Amnio-pushing fuckers.

Leah asked me why I had a white stripe on my head.  I'm so close to delivery that I am doling out my hair coloring to make it to mid May.  How is that for shallow.  I think I tracked the first take home baby by comparing him/her to fruit sizes.  This one's arrival is tracked by how many times I can get my roots done.

Spare time is delightful.  I hate to spend it in a chair.

Miss you guys.

12 comments:

  1. So happy that things are going well. My third was in the same way. It's all unnerving to me still and he's 3 months old. Glad you fired OB, you deserve the best and to be happy with your choice. I went through three in my final pregnancy alone. It was worth it. I decided to stop doing my roots and looked like a skunk near the d date so good for you. Anxiously waiting.

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  2. Ugh yeah, I'm going to need to dye my hair again soon. Maybe I'll get it cut this time too. Those fruit sizes just, well, um, kind of gross. I mean I know I'm not eating my kid but when I look at a sweet potato I kind of gag now.

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  3. Oh Roccie, I love love love that you can't get your roots did. So glad to hear thing are chugging along.

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  4. What a wonderful post about life running along like a stream. It sounds like a very different pregnancy than the last two.
    Miss you too, dear woman.

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  5. Love hearing from you and that all is well! Yay!

    I hate the idea of unassisted pregnancy being normal. Guess that makes our children resulting from assisted pregnancy abnormal? One of the many valuable things I've learned from being a part of the IF community for five years, other than to NEVER ask or comment about someone's child-related status, is the term "spontaneous." I actually think it's very descriptive in this area!

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  6. Oh, how good to hear from you and to know all is well. Too busy to worry sounds blissful. Keep it up!

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  7. Oh, happy for the update, keep going!

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  8. Yay! So glad things are going well for your newest miracle. I figure, no matter how you get there, any baby is miraculous!

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  9. I'm not so good with the math, but it seems like you're probably due to have a baby some time. Let us know, won't you? Love.

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  10. Gettin' to be about that time, is it not? Exciting!!!

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  11. Gettin' to be about that time, is it not? So exciting!!!

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  12. Where are you, Roccie? You must have delivered that baby. We need a report, please. It's dark out here -- give us some light.

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