I will never hand my ultrasound picture to someone when I am 10 wks pregnant.
And expect delight.
Especially when I know she is recently recovered from a miscarriage. And did fertility treatments.
I will never fucking do that.
Dont ask me if I know what that little fuzzy black picture is. Of course I do you callous fucking fertile.
I hate Pandora. It is like a bad sound track to my life.
Cry at my desk.
Oh, no! Ugh. Want me to slap her for you? I would, you know. She wouldn't even have to know it came from you. It would be our little secret.
ReplyDeleteI am so, so sorry. Sending you lots of love and hugs right now. :(
What a fricking idiot. Honestly, I'd like to leap through this internet connection and slap her.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry:( People can be so very very stupid. And callous. Hugs to you. Lousy Fridays are still, well, lousy:(
UNBELIEEEEEEEEEVABLE! I kinda wish you'd burst into tears and said "that looks just the baby I lost WAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH" and cried all over her picture. Teach people to be complete insensitive jerkwads. But alas, they can't be taught, can they? I'm very sorry.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry, Roccie. What a freaking idiot this person must be. Not to mention, naive. Seriously, if you just had a miscarriage, you should at *least* wait until you're like, oh saaay, out of the first trimester to start shoving your pictures in other people's faces. Lots of love, lady. ♥
ReplyDeleteAnd you totally should have done what Bunny suggested. That would have been HA-larious!
Ugh, it never ends. Some people are so clueless and self absorbed. I hope that women takes a moment to revisit how her joy clouded her judgement and thinks next time.
ReplyDeleteUm, total BIATCH! Not cool, not cool at all. I'm thinking next cycle have the video your vag cam experience and very uncomfortably have her watch the video in her cube with you hovering over her so that she may understand only slightly the discomfort you go through on a regular basis. People suck!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that happened to you. What a terrible start to the weekend and you should have slapped her. What a freakin idiot. Unfortunately, I'm not shocked anymore at how stupid people are. (((Hugs)))
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh. I know it was more likely stunned silence, but I'm really proud of you for not saying the horrible things she deserves to hear. (((Hugs)))
ReplyDeleteSeriously? I mean, in what universe would that be OK? Give me a fucking break. Good for you for not letting her have it.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry that happened to you.
Kidney stones! Right? And such lovely ones, congratulations!
ReplyDeleteNo? My bad.
Seriously, on the spot I'd be biting back tears as well.
Insensitive mol!!!! We don't like her. That's when you know life is unfair! Sorry roccie! Am thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry that happened! I know that it's probably not that other person's fault, because unless they've been through it they'll never understand - but that doesn't change the hurt she inadvertently caused you as a result.
ReplyDeleteThanks for checking on my on my blog, btw, I've finally updated!
fuck her. seriously. that is the most insensitive bullshit move. i caught my SIL telling my BIL on the weekend that she was sick of hearing about the "IVF shit". People really suck sometimes. They really do. I'm so sorry you had to endure that.
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How you doing,Lady? Missing you! ;)
ReplyDeleteAre you fucking kidding me? What a total asshole. I am so sorry. I can't even begin to imagine what I would have done. What a self absorbed bitch.
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